Jim Cejka
Through a number of jobs, and the military, I managed to spend a number of Christmases away or without family. At first it was difficult, but it grows on you and you learn to accept it. Today, or if it were a day without covid, stores, restaurants, the gas station on the corner, and about everyplace would open on Christmas, and there are lots of people who would have an interrupted family Christmas anyway. Here too, our daughter, who lives with us, will be at work on Christmas and Christmas Eve. She manages the kennels at a veterinary clinic, so she’s taking care of everyones pets so the owners can have their Christmases.
Christmas with us is more of a mood than just an event, and my whole, and scattered, family, have come to appreciate that. When the decorations in the neighborhood, including ours, go up and the Christmas music starts on the radio stations, the excitement and feelings begin. From my kids scattered around the country, to the son in Norway, we have that “It’s a Wonderful Life” Christmas feeling, and share our togetherness, no matter how far we are apart. We’re family, were still together.
So, Christmas will be with my wife and, at some time, daughter. A little special breakfast (somehow a Kringle always manages to show up), walk the dogs, watch the grand girls Christmas program at church on whatever computer magic they use, and see what Santa might have brought (I’m not sure which of his lists I’m on, so I don’t get my hopes up.) Maybe a toast to Christmases and family and friends past, and, of course, “A Christmas Carol.”
We’ll still get to see the kids and grandkids now with Skype or Zoom or Go or whatever, and see their happy faces, and share their happy time. Never dreamed part of Christmas meant that we’d have our 3 and 6-year old granddaughters understanding that grandpa and grandma still love them, but that covid thing says we can’t be there.
The nasty bug can alter the celebration, but not the spirit.
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